perf: validate update version before backup

[janoshrubos]

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What is the current behavior?

The CLI catches error for invalid version in the argument after cleaning/backing up while update.

What is the new behavior?

The CLI throws error immediately at update if the version in the argument is incorrect.

Fixes #3669