not recieving messages

[bendschs]

my bridge used to work. now, with newest synapse, when i get a new imessage i can see that on both sides (synaspe and puppet-bridge) something is happening, but apparently synapse is not able to invite my matrix user to the preexisting room.

log on puppet-bridge-side:

Matrix-side listening on port 8090
spawning
skiping message:  +00123123123 test
mark message as read
no send event found, returning
skiping message:  e:mail@adress.com test
mark message as read
no send event found, returning
handling message {
  fileRecipient: 'Contactname am 2020-04-01 um 14.41.15.ichat',
  hash: '9a76eda8ed084e4c6d25be88a967ea73',
  senderIsMe: null,
  sender: '+00123123123',
  service: 'iMessage',
  isRead: true,
  isMultiParty: false,
  chatId: '',
  participantIds: [ 'e:mail@adress.com', '+00123123123' ],
  message: 'b',
  date: '2020-04-01T14:47:14.422',
  subject: 'e:mail@adress.com',
  files: []
}
handling message {
  fileRecipient: 'Contactname am 2020-04-01 um 14.41.15.ichat',
  hash: 'c19dc6eef83075d76dd04b9d0cdf0711',
  senderIsMe: [ 'e:', index: 0, input: 'e:mail@adress.com', groups: undefined ],
  sender: 'e:mail@adress.com',
  service: 'iMessage',
  isRead: true,
  isMultiParty: false,
  chatId: '',
  participantIds: [ 'e:mail@adress.com', '+00123123123' ],
  message: 'b',
  date: '2020-04-01T14:47:14.506',
  subject: '+00123123123',
  files: []
}
marking skip:  c19dc6eef83075d76dd04b9d0cdf0711 e:mail@adress.com b
sendEvent of type m.room.message in !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xywith txnId m1585745254069.0
Error sending event [M_FORBIDDEN: User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)] {
  errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  name: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  message: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)",
  data: {
    errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
    error: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)"
  },
  httpStatus: 403
}
sendEvent of type m.room.message in !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xywith txnId m1585745255531.1
Error sending event [M_FORBIDDEN: User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)] {
  errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  name: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  message: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)",
  data: {
    errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
    error: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)"
  },
  httpStatus: 403
}
got ya
sendEvent of type m.room.message in !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xywith txnId m1585745256122.0
Event sent to !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xywith event id $ohZp7Cpfq9EphHjUwn1_u8sMZmLyWLZyRLyouEL0ws0
sendEvent of type m.room.message in !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xywith txnId m1585745256824.2
Error sending event [M_FORBIDDEN: User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)] {
  errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  name: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  message: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)",
  data: {
    errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
    error: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)"
  },
  httpStatus: 403
}
making extra ghosts.. [ 'e:mail@adress.com', '+00123123123' ]
filtered out myself [ '+00123123123' ]
sendEvent of type m.room.message in !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xywith txnId m1585745258601.3
joined ghost +00123123123
Error sending event [M_FORBIDDEN: User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)] {
  errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  name: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  message: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)",
  data: {
    errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
    error: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)"
  },
  httpStatus: 403
}
sendEvent of type m.room.message in !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xywith txnId m1585745259550.4
Error sending event [M_FORBIDDEN: User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)] {
  errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  name: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
  message: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)",
  data: {
    errcode: 'M_FORBIDDEN',
    error: "User @user:serer.xynot in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:serer.xy(<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)"
  },
  httpStatus: 403
}
sendEvent of type m.room.message in !mmduLZXAAkNrqCWFkZ:serer.xywith txnId m1585745260221.0
Event sent to !mmduLZXAAkNrqCWFkZ:serer.xywith event id $3wTcn5ffmdkjsjk3AUsjbS5mJ4SI8UiOrzaa3XM3v6M
making extra ghosts.. [ 'e:mail@adress.com', '+00123123123' ]
filtered out myself [ '+00123123123' ]
joined ghost +00123123123

log on synapse-side:

2020-04-01 14:41:16,747 - synapse.rest.media.v1.media_repository - 392 - WARNING - GET-10394 - Not retrying destination 'synapse.keyvan.pw'
2020-04-01 14:41:24,205 - synapse.rest.media.v1.media_repository - 392 - WARNING - GET-10430 - Not retrying destination 'synapse.keyvan.pw'
2020-04-01 14:41:28,099 - synapse.http.matrixfederationclient - 491 - WARNING - federation_transaction_transmission_loop-5610 - {PUT-O-5645} [national-security.agency] Request failed: PUT matrix://national-security.agency/_matrix/federation/v1/send/1585739280635: RequestTransmissionFailed:[Error([('SSL routines', 'ssl3_read_bytes', 'tlsv1 alert protocol version')])]
2020-04-01 14:41:28,104 - synapse.federation.sender.per_destination_queue - 324 - WARNING - federation_transaction_transmission_loop-5610 - TX [national-security.agency] Failed to send transaction: Failed to send request: RequestTransmissionFailed: [<twisted.python.failure.Failure OpenSSL.SSL.Error: [('SSL routines', 'ssl3_read_bytes', 'tlsv1 alert protocol version')]>]
2020-04-01 14:41:33,574 - synapse.http.site - 203 - WARNING - GET-10480 - Error processing request <XForwardedForRequest at 0xae528650 method='GET' uri='/_matrix/client/r0/sync?filter=0&timeout=30000&since=s102614_374014_231_46685_12_8_3904_3644_121' clientproto='HTTP/1.0' site=8008>: <class 'twisted.internet.error.ConnectionDone'> Connection was closed cleanly.
2020-04-01 14:41:34,044 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - POST-10469 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$bm9K1oi61HyaI4U0A9pbjibI4T3gTSTMOmbAf1jSqnQ', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'> because 403: You are not invited to this room.
2020-04-01 14:41:34,102 - synapse.rest.media.v1.media_repository - 392 - WARNING - GET-10483 - Not retrying destination 'synapse.keyvan.pw'
2020-04-01 14:41:34,582 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - POST-10470 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$S1bzi5pIlWzZQoe3bbMWcmsusJ1GQHrXq8JOPf7CCkA', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'> because 403: You are not invited to this room.
2020-04-01 14:41:35,640 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - PUT-10486 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$bBYxwSjKmXIQimz33_oRlGsqtIXM_h173Nz2pK12Fx8', type='m.room.message', state_key='None'> because 403: User @user:server.xy not in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:server.xy (<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)
2020-04-01 14:41:36,692 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - POST-10490 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$SMw3ChMOFVNLJEWvT8k7JBRw-yLvHh8voyv3FaTwKkU', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'> because 403: You are not invited to this room.
2020-04-01 14:41:38,241 - synapse.http.server - 465 - WARNING - GET-10480 - Not sending response to request <XForwardedForRequest at 0xae528650 method='GET' uri='/_matrix/client/r0/sync?filter=0&timeout=30000&since=s102614_374014_231_46685_12_8_3904_3644_121' clientproto='HTTP/1.0' site=8008>, already disconnected.
2020-04-01 14:41:38,279 - synapse.rest.media.v1.media_repository - 392 - WARNING - GET-10497 - Not retrying destination 'synapse.keyvan.pw'
2020-04-01 14:41:39,322 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - PUT-10498 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$xiFKWNbJRNrsl2ETLElimCTC7SUlaFVT0LEDcs15EH8', type='m.room.message', state_key='None'> because 403: User @user:server.xy not in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:server.xy (<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)
2020-04-01 14:41:41,093 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - POST-10512 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$ma6d_NqtIrt_gno7DO4FElQ4HhhSbzdicH445JB1c50', type='m.room.member', state_key='@imessage_=2b41764564645:server.xy'> because 403: @user:server.xy not in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:server.xy.
2020-04-01 14:41:42,944 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - POST-10515 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$vMXwZvymU-qprVMMEZg9zRoBhgMPwnzZq_Kozm6meMs', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'> because 403: You are not invited to this room.
2020-04-01 14:41:48,603 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - PUT-10548 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$jd0rU5Ya2Ox6wjs8BeZhmnXRLKzHvn3uBtLJnWo5iSQ', type='m.room.message', state_key='None'> because 403: User @user:server.xy not in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:server.xy (<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)
2020-04-01 14:41:50,209 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - POST-10549 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$Kf-xWdCf_-yI4JFztZR8gmlsuJ1a3obTzXXVxoHelLA', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'> because 403: You are not invited to this room.
2020-04-01 14:41:51,356 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - POST-10556 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$3dUDP4NGs4a5wo_issfjHbWu16UsWdlrfat0ulXGJ3c', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'> because 403: You are not invited to this room.
2020-04-01 14:41:54,818 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - PUT-10573 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$OXosyB42a37CQb8BoR4tQr4dyh9SxCzlpRoK-d7khRY', type='m.room.message', state_key='None'> because 403: User @user:server.xy not in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:server.xy (<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)
2020-04-01 14:41:59,549 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - POST-10589 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$_3XxxrHd7u5BvRdRtpHT7cjR0_NTht4L6-FbCeLUf3k', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'> because 403: You are not invited to this room.
2020-04-01 14:42:00,400 - synapse.handlers.message - 810 - WARNING - PUT-10602 - Denying new event <FrozenEventV3 event_id='$2wy09d5gsDL0ushBaYrr2GEp_etOOwQnjo8AYikfHz0', type='m.room.message', state_key='None'> because 403: User @user:server.xy not in room !WgsdtXdiIWIWWHryPT:server.xy (<FrozenEventV3 event_id='$IwrhxqEFrRBh03ceIStz4zFjC2gTreLa8tqdtGW5TdE', type='m.room.member', state_key='@user:server.xy'>)
2020-04-01 14:42:05,923 - synapse.http.matrixfederationclient - 491 - WARNING - federation_transaction_transmission_loop-5609 - {PUT-O-5644} [intothecyber.space] Request failed: PUT matrix://intothecyber.space/_matrix/federation/v1/send/1585739280634: TimeoutError('')

(log data has been anonymized)