Support manylinux_2_28 builds

[sjperkins]

manylinux2014 will be deprecated in July 2024 and arrow may start supporting manylinux_2_28 soon:

• GH-33804: [Python] Add support for manylinux_2_28 wheel apache/arrow#34818

It'd also be useful to support _GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI=1 for source builds on other systems

• Compilation failing on RH8 with GCC 11.3.0 #29 (comment)

This would involve:

• Creating a new vcpkg triplet x64-linux-dynamic-cxx17-abi1-rel based on the existing ABI0 triplet

  arcae/vcpkg/overlay-triplets/x64-linux-dynamic-cxx17-abi0-rel.cmake

  Line 11 in ac315e9

  set(VCPKG_CXX_FLAGS "${VCPKG_CXX_FLAGS} -D_GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI=0")

• Setting the ABI here:

  arcae/cpp/CMakeLists.txt

  Line 15 in ac315e9

  target_compile_options(arcae PUBLIC "-D_GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI=0")

• and here:

  arcae/arcae/CMakeLists.txt

  Line 15 in ac315e9

  target_compile_options(arrow_tables PUBLIC "-D_GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI=0")

• Configuring cmake appropriately based on the desired ABI
• Configuring cibuildwheel to build in a manylinux_2_28 docker container