fix(kafka_issues581): fix over capacity deadlock

[superhx]

close AutoMQ/automq#581

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #843 (2dc6a84) into main (e268e19) will decrease coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage     55.49%   55.47%   -0.03%     
+ Complexity     1244     1242       -2     
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  Files           132      132              
  Lines          8530     8530              
  Branches        787      787              
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- Hits           4734     4732       -2     
  Misses         3380     3380              
- Partials        416      418       +2     

Components	Coverage Δ
RocketMQ Broker	∅ <ø> (∅)
RocketMQ Common	5.80% <ø> (ø)
RocketMQ Controller	54.58% <ø> (ø)
RocketMQ Proxy	37.71% <ø> (-0.11%)	⬇️
RocketMQ Store	74.27% <ø> (ø)
RocketMQ Stream	∅ <ø> (∅)
RocketMQ Metadata	35.44% <ø> (ø)

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