Merge gpugraph to develop

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gpugraph 二期合入develop，主要升级点

1. 新增embedding和graph图属性的多级存储，通过ssd&内存，提升参数和图属性的存储规模。
2. 新增采样、参数拉取和训练的三级流水线，最大化资源效率，提升框架性能。
3. 新增graphsage&erniesage采样，扩展图采样算法，优化策略效果。
4. 通过显存池、变长slot-feature存储等feature，优化显存利用，降低显存开销。
5. 升级多处性能损耗点，比如topo_aware_、gpu table冲突统计和跨卡直接访问等。
6. 升级cpu graph的的加载粒度和存储周期，解决大图场景的内存瓶颈。

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[luotao1]

LGTM for PR-CI-Codestyle-Check, 分布式相关的C++代码格式问题 @danleifeng 后续会找其他同学修，本次先豁免

2022-12-21 08:21:30 paddle/fluid/distributed/ps/service/ps_local_client.h:186:  "virtual" is redundant since function is already declared as "override"  [readability/inheritance] [4]
2022-12-21 08:21:30 paddle/fluid/distributed/ps/service/ps_local_client.h:199:  "virtual" is redundant since function is already declared as "override"  [readability/inheritance] [4]
2022-12-21 08:21:30 Done processing paddle/fluid/distributed/ps/service/ps_local_client.cc
2022-12-21 08:21:30 Done processing paddle/fluid/distributed/ps/service/ps_local_client.h
2022-12-21 08:21:30 Total errors found: 30
2022-12-21 08:21:30 paddle/fluid/distributed/ps/table/ssd_sparse_table.cc:552:  Missing username in TODO; it should look like "// TODO(my_username): Stuff."  [readability/todo] [2]
2022-12-21 08:21:30 paddle/fluid/distributed/ps/table/ssd_sparse_table.cc:581:  Missing username in TODO; it should look like "// TODO(my_username): Stuff."  [readability/todo] [2]
2022-12-21 08:21:30 Done processing paddle/fluid/distributed/ps/table/ssd_sparse_table.cc
2022-12-21 08:21:30 Total errors found: 2
2022-12-21 08:21:30 paddle/fluid/framework/fleet/heter_ps/test_cpu_query.cu:31:  Static/global string variables are not permitted.  [runtime/string] [4]
2022-12-21 08:21:30 Done processing paddle/fluid/framework/fleet/heter_ps/test_cpu_query.cu
2022-12-21 08:21:30 Total errors found: 1

[yaoxuefeng6]

LGTM

[lanxianghit]

LGTM for Flags

[zhiqiu]

LGTM for const_cast

[qili93]

@yaoxuefeng6 这个 PR 关于 rocksdb.cmake 的修改 broken 了 Paddle 在 aarch64 环境下的源码编译功能，辛苦修复下!

这里 rocksdb.cmake 里面的 sse 以及 -mpclmul 相关的编译选项都是 x86 环境下独有的，在 aarch64下会导致编译失败

rocksdb 本身是支持 aarch64 平台下的编译的，请根据 rocksdb 的 cmake 自动根据编译环境来选择编译选项，代码见 https://github.com/Thunderbrook/rocksdb/blob/main/CMakeLists.txt#L261

当前 work-around 办法是在 aarch64 编译时加上 WITH_PSCORE=OFF 来关闭对于 rocksdb 的编译和引用。