[Helm] tempo Ingester rollout-group collides with other LTGM component ingesters

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Describe the bug

The tempo Helm chart with deploymentMode: Distributed and zoneAwareReplication enabled (default) generates Ingester StatefulSets with labels for rollout-operator. Ex here:

{{- if and .ctx.Values.ingester.zoneAwareReplication.enabled .rolloutZoneName }}
name: {{ printf "%s-%s" .component .rolloutZoneName }}
rollout-group: {{ .component }}
zone: {{ .rolloutZoneName }}
{{- end }}

This is identical to the issue filed against loki, here: grafana/loki#13168

Additionally, the anti-affinity rules for loki/tempo/mimir all incorporate the StatefulSet name. In all three cases it is explicitly set to the component name coupled with the target zone. When deploying multiple LTGM components to the same namespace this yields a first scheduled wins problem.