Bump byte-buddy, gradle, lombok

[hughsimpson]

Bumps some dependencies

I built byte-buddy off this manually applied diff with byte-buddy 15.1 according to the comments on this pr. I didn't apply the commented-out maven-shade-plugin from that diff, since that seemed like a mistake? Used Java version 1.8.0_392 (OpenJDK Runtime Environment (Zulu 8.74.0.17-CA-macos-aarch64) (build 1.8.0_392-b08)) to build the byte-buddy jar.

Perhaps, in the future, it would be possible to write a manually-triggered github action to do this (i.e. pass it a byte-buddy tag, and have it clone the repo, check out that tag, apply the diff, build the artifact, and pr the jars) so that provenance could be better ascertained... Obviously I haven't done that leg-work in this pr.

Other changes:

• bumped gradle to 8.10
• replaced |& with 2>&1 | because the former doesn't work on macos :'(
• lombok to 1.18.34

[hughsimpson]

@ivantopo @dpsoft I'm about to do a thing with another repo where it has to make a pr to yet another repo when a certain file changes. Once I do that thing, it'll probably be easy enough to do a similar thing here and make the jar construction traceable. Might do that instead for byte-buddy.

Edit: attempt that flow here