refactor(any): Remove lifetime parameter from AnyArguments

[iamjpotts]

Does your PR solve an issue?

Similar to #3957, allows more flexibility with passing references as bind parameters to query! macros when using the Any driver.

This is the first of two prs, after which Query::bind and Query::try_bind argument lifetimes will be relaxed to be consistent across the drivers. The second pr adds a test which is a compile-time check of the new lifetime allowances for arguments. That test will not compile with just this pr.

Second of the two prs:
#3960

Is this a breaking change?

Yes:

• removes lifetime parameters from structs that are a part of the public api for the Any driver
• changes enum variants for AnyValueKind

[joeydewaal]

Just as a note:
To implement something like #875, you'd have to defer the encoding of the arguments until your in the driver. One way to do that is to store the arguments in a Vec<&dyn Encode>. Which is something we could do now since we have a lifetime in ArgumentBuffer.

(There are pro's and con's ofcourse, it'd save a copy here and here but all bind calls would require a reference.)