feat: refuse to set deprecated/invalid config

[wraithgar]

BREAKING CHANGE: npm config set will no longer accept deprecated or
invalid config options.

[wraithgar]

Closes npm/statusboard#535

[npm-cli-bot]

no statistically significant performance changes detected

timing results

app-large	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit
npm@8	46.999 ±1.23	21.966 ±0.48	19.671 ±0.01	22.739 ±1.03	3.555 ±0.08	3.636 ±0.04	2.815 ±0.01	13.708 ±0.25	2.884 ±0.07	4.254 ±0.12
#5719	42.905 ±1.11	21.112 ±0.27	19.516 ±0.00	22.694 ±1.24	3.560 ±0.12	3.519 ±0.02	2.814 ±0.03	13.562 ±0.29	2.818 ±0.01	4.413 ±0.47

app-medium	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit
npm@8	32.430 ±2.71	17.061 ±0.31	15.401 ±0.17	16.660 ±0.73	3.323 ±0.03	3.249 ±0.00	2.975 ±0.11	10.460 ±0.00	2.727 ±0.07	3.716 ±0.00
#5719	31.541 ±1.33	16.676 ±0.21	15.211 ±0.25	16.452 ±0.51	3.275 ±0.03	3.318 ±0.04	2.831 ±0.01	10.432 ±0.04	2.699 ±0.02	3.623 ±0.03

[xXAvoraXx]

npm config set msvs_version not working