*: support cancel query like 'select * from information_schema.tables' (#57766)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #57766

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #57749

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Check ctx cancel in the loop.
ListTables might be slow when there are too many tables, add a ctx to it to support cancel.

Check List

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
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• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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• 2024-11-29 12:20:51.261745475 +0000 UTC m=+811838.881399991: ☑️ agreed by tiancaiamao.
• 2024-12-01 09:16:04.855190554 +0000 UTC m=+973552.474845071: ☑️ agreed by wjhuang2016.

[Rustin170506]

Looks good to me. Thanks!

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