planner: Limit fine grained shuffle usage for mpp join operators to ensure shuffle keys are the same with actual join keys (#59884)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #59884

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #59877

Problem Summary:
Problem described here

What changed and how does it work?

This PR limit the fined grained shuffle usage to situations that shuffle keys are the same with actual join keys. In this way the pre-calculated hash codes will always be valid.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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Fix the issue that the query result might be wrong when mpp hash join's equal condition keys have different data type.

[ti-chi-bot]

@yibin87 This PR has conflicts, I have hold it.
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[yibin87]

/cc @windtalker @guo-shaoge @winoros

[yibin87]

/unhold

[windtalker]

lgtm

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[LGTM Timeline notifier]

Timeline:

• 2025-03-06 05:41:11.902837776 +0000 UTC m=+506585.031757520: ☑️ agreed by windtalker.
• 2025-03-06 05:51:29.546025207 +0000 UTC m=+507202.674944951: ☑️ agreed by guo-shaoge.