fix index cannot be reshaped with inner join

[melonora]

closes #829

There was a problem when a mutable copy was created when performing an inner join. This was due to slicing using an Index which did not have the method .reshape. This is fixed in this PR by converting it to a list.

Tested on the squidpy notebook.

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